What do we say or do when someone is walking through chronic pain and illness? Cari Lyons offers suggestions about how to intentionally love someone with chronic illness in a way that will impact you both dramatically.
Podcast Episode
Show Notes
5 ways to walk with someone experiencing chronic illness:
Be present-your presence is more helpful than words; “leave no man behind” philosophy
Listen bravely-it’s not your job to fix them
Love unconditionally - be patient, consistent, don’t judge/doubt/invalidate their situation
Encourage them
Anticipate their needs-
What life is like for the chronically ill
Eccl 4:9-10 “Two are better than one...for if they fall , one will lift up his companion”
Ideas to help when you’re not sure what to do:
DVD/movie, watch tv together
Card/text/call- regularly check in
Flowers, fruit bouquet
Visit and offer a mental vacation- funny stories or memories
Drop off small gift or book/magazine
Example:
“I am going to text you every week and invite you to meet for coffee/lunch/movie. You can turn me down as much as you want. But when you are ready, we will go somewhere fabulous and it’s my treat. And you can tell me what life’s been like OR we can talk about tv, celebrities, complain about in-laws,kids etc.”
If you’re the one who is sick and lonely?
Don’t give up
You are not alone (that is a lie from the enemy)
Trust those you love and tell them you need them
Have realistic expectations for friends-
Release unmet expectations and bitterness
Areas to Help the Chronically Ill
1. Build a Team
2. Make a healthy investment in yourself
3. Community
Additional Resources
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